By Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort
CARLSBAD, Calif.—Askmoses.com has been in existence for just a few
short years, but during
that time countless lives have been changed. The following story is true, I
know, it happened to me, and illustrates the awesome power for good found
within the internet.
This story should be refreshing, for so many have heard horror stories about
online experiences. But we all must be aware that any tool in our hand is
neither good nor evil, in and of itself. Instead, a tool is only what we
humans choose to do with it. Should we choose to use it to
build it then it is good. Should we use it to destroy it becomes evil. The
bottom line is that it is all up to us!
A couple of years ago I was as busy as a bee during my normal Askmoses
shift. During this time "Donna" came online and started asking some
compelling questions. It seemed as though Donna had a strong urge to infuse
her life, and that of her family, with more Judaism. She asked about the
Jewish dietary laws (Kashrut), and our conversation touched on several other
subjects as well.
As the chat progressed it became clear that Donna had a couple of young
children and she was most concerned about their Jewish education. "How do
we instill within our children Jewish values when the world around us seems so
far from the Torah ethic?" she queried. "How can I send my children
to a secular preschool when my husband and I are trying so hard to teach them
a different set of morals?" she wondered.
Donna was clearly motivated to enhance the Judaism in her home. It was the
dream of every agent of Askmoses. To deal with an intelligent and
motivated user is the ultimate form of compensation imaginable. It was why
every one of us became an agent to begin with. We all hope for the day when we
can help someone who is searching. We look for the opportunity to expose the
Jewish people to the beauty and enriching lifestyle found within the Torah.
I asked Donna where she lived so that I could direct her to the nearest Chabad
Center and with her permission contact that Rabbi so that he would look out
for Donna and her family. I was thrilled to learn that Donna lived in a city
directly adjacent to my own. I was able to tell her all about the outstanding
Jewish school where my own children attend, the Chabad Hebrew
Academy in the Scripps Ranch section of San Diego, and she seemed even happier when she learned I have
a daughter the same age as her oldest daughter.
Without delay I gave Donna the school's contact information, and being it was
summer, I urged her to arrange an immediate meeting with the school staff.
Donna is a very conscientious mother and I felt confident that Donna would
find both the curriculum and the friendly and caring staff to her liking.
Indeed, I was not disappointed, and neither was Donna. In fact, Donna enrolled
her daughter to begin the fall term.
Donna started attending classes and asking many wonderful questions. She
proclaimed her desire to have Mezuzot installed on all of her doors and soon
enough they were all covered.
After a year of school Donna and her family felt the need to live closer to
the school and in a community where a Chabad synagogue would be walking
distance. Being the practical woman that she is Donna also realized the moving
into a new home afforded her the perfect opportunity to make her kitchen
Kosher, a goal she had entertained for quite a while.
And now Donna and her beautiful family are well on their way! They do indeed
have a lovely new home close to the school and the Chabad Center. They have
Mezuzot on all of their doors. And best of all they have found themselves.
Their Jewish observance is on the rise as is the harmony within their family.
Donna is not satisfied however.
She continues to vigorously pursue her own Jewish education. She is after all
finding it more and more challenging to help her children with their homework
from school as their level of Jewish knowledge soars. In addition, she feels
very strongly that she should be knowledgeable about what they are learning in
their Jewish studies program, and she herself has a constant
thirst for more Jewish wisdom.
Donna's story is poignant. And yet as time goes on there are more and more
stories like Donna's. As Askmoses continues to provide a forum where
people may reach Torah scholars six days a week and 24 hours per day, more and
more Jews are finding their way back to Judaism. Never before in the long
history of humankind has an individual had the opportunity to interact with a
scholar at his or her own convenience, from the comfort of home. Askmoses
has opened many doors, many minds, and many hearts. And with the Almighty's
continued blessings will do so for many years to come!
Rabbi Eilfort is the director of Chabad at La Costa.
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